Monday, December 14, 2015

FranceGiving

Francegiving

This is a term used by one of my students. She said she wish France had Thanksgiving and that is should be called Francegiving. I think it perfectly describes my Thanksgiving in France. Actual Thanksgiving was in my previous post. However, on Saturday 28/11 I had a bunch of people over and we celebrated Thanksgiving together. The celebration consisted of about 6 Americans and the rest were from other countries (mostly the UK and a couple from India). It was so fun to share our celebration with others. We had chicken (the store was out of turkey), mashed potatoes, homemade mac and cheese, stuffing, gravy, green bean casserole, baguette rolls, and homemade pumpkin pie. It was all so good! I don’t think the non-Americans understood just how much one eats at Thanksgiving. It was kind of sad we didn’t have a lot of food for seconds…or leftovers. But at least they got to experience some of the fun traditions involved with the holiday. We even watched the Charlie Brown Thanksgiving episode (where they have toast and popcorn for dinner when Peppermint Patty invites herself over for dinner), it is one of my favorite Charlie Brown episodes. I loved being able to celebrate with these new friends!

 Homemade Mac and Cheese, Stuffing, and Gravy...you know the important food of Thanksgiving

Pumpkin Pie!!

Sunday and Monday passed without incident. I just relaxed. Monday I went to the store and got some stuff I needed and some stuff I didn’t (story of my life). I just enjoyed the walk outside for the most part. Speaking of walking outside…it has been like ridiculously nice weather here. There have been a few cold rainy days; however the temperature has generally been in the 50s!

Tuesday 1/12: The high is supposed to be 55 F. Like what is this? I am in disbelief that it is in the 50s on the first of December. It should be much colder and there should have been at least one snow fall and frost on the cars in the morning. I’ve only seen the frost a few times…definitely not today. It has been a good day. I seem to have a group of missing students though. I’m supposed to have a group of 5ème (like 7th grade in the US) from 10-11 and they haven’t been coming! Their teacher and I have been trying to come up with different ways to remind them to come. We will have to try something new for next week. After school and before tutoring I met with my new friend Cat (the Scott) at Chipotle at La Défense. We just chatted for awhile while watching the Marche de Noël (Christmas Market) at La Défense. She is so fun! I’m really glad that I got to meet her! After our Chipotle adventure I headed over to Maxime’s for his lesson. He is such a ball of energy! I hope he is learning from me! I think it is hard for him, because he doesn’t get English every day, but he is slowly improving! When I got home I put the Christmas tree up (there was one left behind) and put on the lights. No decorations yet though. Oh and I found a little Nativity for myself!

 A Donkey at La Defense 
 My little Nativiy
My Christmas Tree

Wednesday 2/12: Today I planned a lesson on the American Dream for two of my classes and it actually went the way I wanted it to! I was so excited. It is rare when lessons actually go the direction I want. The students just started the American Dream and what it meant for immigrants and Americans in the past. So I focused on what it means today. They were excited about it; I was happy about that. The rest of the day was pretty calm. I went for a walk around Montgeron when I got home and found a Hair salon for 30,50€ the cheapest one I’ve seen. Now I just need to build up the courage and find the vocabulary I need to go get my haircut (it is becoming a thick mess). When I got home I made tacos for dinner! I was pretty satisfied with them…I could have used some black beans, corn, and rice…maybe next time.

Thursday 3/12: Today school went well. I did a discussion with my prep-school students about the sports culture in the US. They were pretty shocked about how much sports really influence life in the States, maybe the week of the Super Bowl I will bring them some “Super Bowl Food.” After school I met up with Cat (again) Kayla, and we headed to IKEA. I swear IKEA is like my happy place. It is exactly like IKEAS in the US (except the French). Sometimes while walking around in there I forget that I am in France until I hear people talking! We ate some dinner at the restaurant (Swedish meatballs) and then walked around. After we were finished at IKEA we stopped at a little churro truck thing outside of the store, they were good! Then we checked out a few of the other shops around IKEA. We spotted quite a few fun things. It makes me wish I had money to buy all the fun things I see. After we finished at the shops we all headed home. It is so great to spend time with these friends I’m making. I love it.

Christmas tree in front of IKEA

Friday 4/12: I went to my classes and headed home! I sometimes treasure the days where I don’t do much. I feel like I’ve been really social lately.

Saturday 5/12: Today I went and met with a family in Le Vésinet (this is a city west of Paris, about a half hour-40 min from my school) who is searching for a tutor for their 8 year old son in exchange for housing; I know you see where this is going…anyway they were so nice and incredibly welcoming, even on the first meeting. The family lived in the US for a couple years before moving back to France, they want to help their son succeed in English. They have a little pool house that they have converted into a studio apartment. It has everything but a washer and dryer which are in the main house. The city is so quiet and very safe. I really want this job! After I met with the family I headed to La Défense to meet up with Amanda, Cat, and Kayla. I met them at Chipotle (yes again) and we ate some food and then headed to walk around the Marché de Noël. There were lots of fun little stalls and I even found some Christmas gifts to get. When we finished at the market Kayla and Amanda left for a dinner and Cat and I went into the mall at La Défense, 4 Temps. The mall was packed with Christmas shoppers, I thought that was only an American thing…I was wrong. We made our way to Auchan where Cat bought an air mattress. Then we headed to Cat’s apartment to dispose of the bed and so that I could see it. She lives on the 6th floor with no elevator. It was a long way up…besides that she has a cute little apartment that she lives in, in exchange for babysitting. If it wasn’t the 6th floor I wouldn’t mind living there. While we were at her apartment we decided we wanted to watch a movie, however she has no internet, so we decided to go back to my apartment. On the way we stopped at a little pizza place near her apartment for dinner. I had a racqulette (cheese, potatoes, bacon) pizza. It was really good. Once we got to my apartment we watched “Home Alone” then went to sleep, it was well after midnight when we finished.

 4 Temps Mall Christmas Decorations

La Defense Christmas Tree

Sunday 6/12: Cat and I slept in and then watched another movie, “Lady and the Tramp.” Then we headed out. Cat wanted to go back to Auchan to see how much peanut butter was there. So we headed to Paris. On the way we stopped at a KFC (we were hungry and they were open). I’m not really a fan of KFC in the US….but at least they have like mashed potatoes, mac and cheese, biscuits etc. KFC here is basically the chicken and French fries…and desserts, because this is France and they always have dessert. We got a bucket of chicken tenders to share, some French fries and an Orangina each. After we finished we spent a few minutes looking at bus tickets to Strasbourg for this coming weekend. We found tickets for 8.50€ for Cat, Kayla, Amanda, and myself to go for this coming Saturday. Now when I say 8.50€ I mean 8.50€ total for all of us…that is 2.25€ for each of us. So we will be heading to Strasbourg at 7:15am and leaving from there at 11:15pm. Busses can be so cheap here! I can’t wait! After we booked our tickets we headed to La Défense back to the Auchan there….and it was closed!! We were so sad. Their website said it would be open. It was disappointing…so to drown our sorrows we got some ice cream at McDonalds. When I finished my ice cream I had to head to Neuilly to tutor Alexis. It was a good session. He is reading Pride and Prejudice, so we talked about where he was at and what he was thinking of the book. I was surprised to hear he was reading that. It is kind of a hard book for some English speakers, but for a French speaker it must be more difficult to get through. I gave him some tips for reading a book in a language not your own and we talked about the book. It was good a good hour. After I finished with Alexis, I got a message from the family that I had met with on Saturday, they wanted to Skype. Well I definitely did not want to wait to get home. So I Skyped with them outside on a bench near the entrance to the metro. They said that they really liked me and they offered the job to me! I was so happy!! So I’m moving AGAIN! I know it’s only been a month since I moved to Montgeron, but this will be better and closer to my school! I cannot wait to move on the 19th of this month. It will be a great start to my Christmas holiday!! After I Skyped with them, I immediately called my parents and told them the news…so I just kept on Skyping on the streets of Neuilly. Good thing it isn’t winter here yet, haha. Once I hung up with my parents I headed home and went to sleep!

Monday 7/12: Today I spent the morning at home doing laundry. In the afternoon I headed to La Défense (my new hangout I guess) to meet Amanda. We decided to go to the cinema to see the “Hunger Games: Mocking Jay Part 2.” The theater was at the top of the 4 Temps mall. Theaters here are much the same as they are in the US. The biggest difference is the concessions. They had popcorn, some candy (mostly M&Ms), coke products, ice cream, and a coffee bar…that was it. We got popcorn, some soda, and crispy M&Ms to put in our popcorn. The popcorn tasted more like it does at a dollar theater in the US. Ah well. It was still good and the movie was really good too. After the movie we met up with Cat (who found peanut butter for relatively cheap and got me a jar, she is the best) to head for dinner. We wanted Mexican, but not Chipotle again. Cat knew of a place in Le Marais, so we headed over there. The metro was packed! It was standing room only and we were squished up against each other…rush hour in France…after like 40 min or so we finally got to the Le Marais and went to the restaurant. It was pretty good. I got a chicken quesadilla…it had some kind of sweet sauce on top and was delicious. Then we walked around Le Marais a little to see if there were any shops still open to find a dreidel…we weren’t successful, (we are having a Chanukah party on Friday night at Cat’s – we will sleep over so we can head to the bus stop Saturday morning together). All of the shops were closed. So we all headed home.

 A real breakfast of Brioche French Toast with Nutella and bananas

 Candy Menorah for Hanukkah

 Mexican food in Le Marais 
Peanut Butter!!!

Tuesday 8/12: I really enjoy my Monday being free from work…but it makes Tuesdays really hard to wake up. I got up this morning and headed to work. Then worked on some planning/this blog for awhile before heading to meet Cat at Pont de Neuilly; we met to find a dreidel in this area. We found the dreidel and went to La Défense. I think it’s my new hangout. It was fun hanging out with her there. Then I headed to tutor Maxime and then headed home. It was a long but good day.
 So French - Croissant and Chocolat Chaud

Christmas Tree in Puteaux - literally right outside of Maxime's window

 Wednesday 9/12: I just headed home after work today. I need more days like that.

Thursday 10/12: Another day where I headed home after work.

Friday 11/12: Today I woke up with really bad cramps. So I canceled my classes for the day. So I slept in and then did my laundry. Tonight we were having a Hanukkah Party. So I packed some overnight things then headed to meet Cat in Le Marais to buy Challa bread and other supplies for dinner and for the next day. Then we went to her apartment to wait for Amanda and Kayla. While we were waiting Cat started some the process to make chicken curry; this was a very multicultural night. Once Amanda arrived she made some latkes, from scratch (she is so talented). Once the latkes were done Amanda said the Jewish prayers (she is cool and knows them), then we ate our feast. Then Kayla arrived and we ate some Bûche de Noël (like I said multicultural). We chatted the rest of the evening, even though we had stuff for dreidel and headed to bed, we had a long day ahead of us.
 Bakery where we got the Challa Bread

 Latkes, chicken and vegetable curry

 Homemade Dreidel - this what happens when you forget the real dreidel at home...

Our Buche de Noel 

Saturday 12/12: We got up at 5:30am to get ready to head out to Strasbourg…it was a long day. We got to the bus station at about 6:50am and waited a bit before we could get on the bus. Once on the bus we had to wait a bit longer; our bus was supposed to leave at 7:15…it really left at 7:30. The bus ride was only supposed to take about 5 ½ hours…it really took about 8 ½. First the bus driver got lost, then our 10 min coffee break lasted a half hour, then the bus driver switch took another half hour, and then we stopped for another while with no explanation. Once we finally got to Strasbourg, the bus driver turned onto the wrong street and while we were going back around to get to the right street he hit a side mirror on a truck…that took another 45 min while they exchanged information….So needless to say we were all hungry/tired/crabby once we finally got off that bus. Once we got off we headed to the mall straight across from the bus stop and found food. We ate at a pizza place then we used the bathrooms then headed to the Christmas Market. It was so fun. We stopped and got some hot drinks (vin chaud – hot wine for the girls, and jus de pomme chaud – hot apple cider for me). They were so good. Then we wandered around the market. We found lots of fun gifts for people and fought our way through the crowds. When we were finished at the market we went and got drinks at a bar that had a big area for sitting outside (with heaters), don’t worry I had hot chocolate. After drinks we stopped at a little market and got snacks for the ride home/the next morning. Since we still had two hours before our bus left we headed to a restaurant for dinner. We took our time and enjoyed the atmosphere. It was a much more German style restaurant; it was a nice change from the French style ones here in Paris. At about 10:30 we started making our way back to the bus stop. The bus was supposed to depart at 11:15pm…yeah that didn’t happen. It didn’t show up until close to midnight, we were really cold by this time. Once we were on the bus the bus driver informed us that he had to take a mandatory 40 min break…so we finally left around 12:40pm. The ride home was pretty calm…other then the fact that we got lost…again. This time I slept for most of the ride; a very un-restful sleep…but at least I didn’t notice how long it took until I saw the time…we arrived at about 8am…remember this drive should have only taken 6 hours at the most…#france…

 Strasbourg 
  Strasbourg 
  Strasbourg 
  Strasbourg 
  Strasbourg 
  Strasbourg 
  Strasbourg 
  Strasbourg 
  Strasbourg - You know how I love old churches... 
  Strasbourg 
 Cat and Kayla
  Strasbourg 
  Strasbourg - Chocolat Chaud
 Strasbourg 

Sunday 13/12: When we finally arrived back in Paris; we made our way back to Cat’s apartment. On our way from the metro we stopped at McDonald’s for breakfast. I had an egg and cheese mcmuffin…I miss McDonalds breakfast in the US…France doesn’t have hash browns...I was sad. Once we got back to Cat’s we took a much needed nap. At 12:30 we got back up and headed out to meet with some of our other friends or our Secret Santa exchange (oh yeah I did a Secret Santa this year). We met them at a British Pub. I had Toad in a Hole (sausages, gravy, and Yorkshire pudding served with veggies and mashed potatoes) and crème brulée. I got my Secret Santa a cute little tea candle holder from the Strasbourg Christmas Market. I still don’t know what my Secret Santa (Amanda) got for me. She ordered it off of Amazon and it hasn’t arrived yet, and she won’t tell me what it is…but she did get me a cute card while I wait. After the get together I headed home. I was tired. Once home I showered (I needed it), did a little packing, and headed to bed.

Toad in a Hole + one roasted potato

Monday 14/12: Today I moved!!! On Friday evening Laure (the mother of the young boy I will be tutoring/babysitting) messaged me and asked if I could move in early; their previous person had to leave early. I of course obliged and packed all my stuff up this morning and Amanda and I moved my stuff, hopefully for the last time. It was quiet the adventure. We had to catch a bus to Villeneuve-Saint-George; while there we had to take my stuff down some stairs then back up some stairs….luckily on the way up the stairs and abundance of people helped us take everything up the stairs. We were so grateful for their random acts of kindness. They helped us catch the train that was at the station. It was seriously the nicest thing ever. Once the train arrived in Paris we switched to the one that headed out to Le Vésinet, my new home. We were hoping to catch a bus from the station, but there was road construction that put the bus somewhere else, so we started walking…while walking the wheels on the back of my suitcase decided to break. So Amanda was dragging the suitcase…the wheels are gone. I’m upset about the suitcase. I got it specifically for France…obnoxious. I’m hoping there is a way I can fix them…or find new wheels to replace them. Anyway…once we finally got all my stuff here. We headed to find something to eat for lunch. Now being American we often forget that restaurants here close for several hours in the afternoon…so we went to Monoprix and got some bread and a few other things for a makeshift lunch. We ate our little lunch in front of the church in town. I then dropped her off at the station and headed back to my new place. I then unpacked a little, then went and tutored Grégoire. We went over his homework then played games. We played hide and seek, a game with his soccer ball (I made him list vocabulary words for different topics) and we played tag…in the dark…with light sabers. He had fun which is good. Grégoire is bilingual, so speaking in English comes easy to him – his parents just want him to keep it up. After I was finished I came back out to my little house thing and unpacked some more, made some dinner (by the way I have an oven now!!) and am now finishing up this blog post, while watching Netflix. I will get pictures once I am all the way unpacked. I’m really looking forward to working with the Chatin’s (the name of the family) especially Greg. They are very kind people. Here is to new adventures in France!


P.S. Things I wish I could get in France: Midol (yes I said Midol) and big bottles of Advil/Tylenol…if you want to send me some or all of these I would love you forever!

Thursday, November 26, 2015

Where did the last three weeks go?

Well all. I apologize for the long delay in getting a new post up for you. I have been without internet for over a week. So welcome to another long catch-up post!! It will include my last days of my sister’s visit, the Paris attacks, moving, and life without internet. Enjoy!!

Monday 9/11 was a semi-tourist day for me. That morning I met Rachel and her mother-in-law, Mary, at the metro near their hotel. Then we went and got breakfast from a bakery, Paul; Rachel and Mary both got tartes, I got pain au chocolat. Then we headed to the RER station (one of the Trains) to get to head to the Eiffel Tower. The Eiffel Tower opens at 9:30 we got there at about 8:50, and it was a good thing we did, there was already a small line…by the time 9:30 rolled around the line was wrapped around the other side of the tower! Sometimes it pays to have a sister who likes to plan ahead. At 9:30 they opened the ticket office and we got our tickets to take the elevator to the top (smartest idea). We got up there and it was beautiful! I loved being able to see all of Paris with a bird’s eye view! We walked around the top then headed down to the 2nd floor, there we walked around a little more, took some more pictures, and then we took the stairs to the 1st floor (that was a lot of stairs, so glad we took the elevator up)! On the 1st floor they have some parts where you can stand on “clear” plastic and look down to the ground. That was fun and kind of scary at the same time (raise your hand if you have a fear of falling too) since it is still very high up. When we decided it was time to leave we went to wait for the elevator…that was taking forever. There is only one big elevator and it was filled with people when it finally stopped on the floor. So we decided to go down the stairs instead. We beat the elevator that we couldn’t fit into…the stairs were worth it. After the Eiffel tower we walked to the river, for a boat tour of the major sites of Paris. The tour was fun. It still amazes me all of the history that is in Paris. I loved seeing the sites from the river. After the cruise I left Rachel and Mary at Trocadéro to head to Montgeron to pick up my keys for my new apartment. Once I was finished there I met Rachel in the Carousel, a little mall underneath the Louvre (where they were). We then started to walk around trying to decide what to do for dinner. After passing a ton of different places, we decided to go back to Isle Saint-Louis, where we had dinner the first night, to try a restaurant we had seen. We got their “formule” (a set price meal). I got, French onion soup (except they just call it onion soup here), tartiflette (kind of like au gratin potatoes, but with French cheese), and a fruit salad for dessert. It was so good. I really enjoyed the meal. Then we walked back towards their hotel and I headed home (I had work the next morning).

 Eiffel Tower
 View From the Top
 View From the Top
 View From the Top
 View From the Top
 View From the Top
 View from the first floor
 View from the first floor
 View from the first floor
 River Cruise 
 River Cruise
 River Cruise

 Carousel de Louvre-Ready for Christmas
 Eiffel Tower at sunset
 Eiffel Tower at sunset
My store! 
 McDo all decked out for the holidays
 Notre Dame
 View From the Top of the Eiffel Tower
On the River Boat Cruise

 Tuesday 10/11: I had to go to work while Rachel and Mary headed to Versailles to explore the palace and gardens. I also had to tutor that evening so I did not meet up with them until dinner time. We were all tired and wanted to do something fast. So I met them at the McDonalds (you read that right, McDonalds) near their apartment and get dinner to go. My first experience with McDonalds in France wasn’t too bad. I got a “Royal Cheese” which I think is a quarter pounder with cheese...it tasted just fine. We also finished of the macarons we got their first day here. We chatted awhile and then it was time to say goodbye, they were leaving very early Wednesday morning. It was hard to say goodbye. I loved having my sister here and was so grateful that she could come. I hope more people decide to come visit me! It was fun seeing a family member everyday for a week. I miss
Wednesday 11/11: Armistice Day-Veterans Day (in the U.S.). Today we did not have school. Bank holidays are usually given off in France. So I decided to move a bunch of my stuff to my new apartment. So I got up packed my stuff aka shoved things in my suitcases and waited for a few friends I recruited to help me move (Amanda, Kayla, and Jo). Amanda and Jo arrived first so we gathered all my stuff and waited for Kayla by the metro entrance. We then started the journey to my new apartment. I’m so grateful for their help. I have no idea how I would have made it all the way out there without their help. We dropped my stuff at my new place. It was about 5 when we were finally done, and we were starving. So we decided to eat at this little diner in Montgeron. It had a 50s theme and was definitely a stereotype of what the French think of U.S. diners. We shared some appetizers; mozzarella sticks and onion rings (I was pretty happy about this) and I got a cheeseburger and fries (they were steak fries; different from other places I’ve had fries here). Then we made our way back to Paris, where I left them to head out to their apartments in the Paris suburbs opposite from where we were. It was fun hanging out these guys. They know how to make anything into an adventure!

Thursday 12/11: Just a normal day of teaching English at the school. It is fun getting to know these kids more. I wish that I saw them more than once a week, or once every few weeks. It’s also fun seeing how excited they get seeing me in the hallways. I love it!

Friday 13/11: Another normal day today. I have just two classes on Fridays but I also tutor every other Friday night. So I will hang out in Neuilly until it is time to tutor; which is what I am doing right now! I have one more class in about 20 min. Then afterwards I will probably do a little work for next week, maybe explore the city some more, maybe do a little window shopping…I am moving out tomorrow…So, obviously, I started writing this post well before the events of that night. I want to leave it as is and just add. On 13/11 after I completed my tutoring session I headed home like any other night, stopped at the market to get something for dinner and got home, ate dinner got ready for bed etc. I skyped with my mom for awhile and then skyped with my good friend Malia. While talking with Malia a friend of mine here in Paris, Kayla, messaged me and asked if I heard about the shooting? I hadn’t so I started to look up the news and see what I could find. At first it didn’t seem too serious. As sad as it sounds, a shooting in my mind wasn’t that big of a deal, they happen in the U.S. However, the news kept coming in, a bombing at the stadium, hostages at the Bataclan theater, the numbers kept going up. It really shocked me. I looked up the distance from where I was in the 5th to where the events were taking place…the Bataclan and the café were just 2 ½ miles or so from where I was! I couldn’t believe it; I heard no sirens from my window. I made my post on Facebook that I was safe, and just watched the news for most of the night, received many texts, messages, and Facebook posts making sure I was safe. I was safe, but I was sad, and afraid for Paris, for France. I worried that if I went to bed it would get worse, I was saddened for the victims and for their families, I worried. After a very late night FaceTime chat with Tiffanie, I finally fell asleep. It really baffles me that people resort to such extreme measures for “revenge” or in the name of God. I know that it happened in the past and will happen again in the future, it is just sad. I pray for the world. I pray that we will show these terrorists that they cannot win. That the world will come together against them.

La Defense the night of the Paris Attacks

Saturday 14/11: Today when I woke up. I immediately checked the news. I wanted to know what had happened in the hours of sleep I had. I wanted to know if anything new had happened. It was depressing hearing all of the reports. Once I got up I had to get all of my remaining things packed, since I needed to move, once packed I headed out on the metro/RER to get to my new apartment. It was really nervous at first. I had never seen Paris so quiet on a Saturday morning. I got on the metro and headed to Chatelet (a major metro/RER station). It was there that I saw a lot of soldiers out watching, looking, protecting. It is there that I felt it really was safe to be out in the city. I arrived in Montgeron safely and started unpacking (I’m still not done…sorry no pictures until I am finished), made some dinner and headed to bed. Moving really takes it out of me.

Sunday 15/11: I may have slept in a little too long for church. It will now take me about 40 min to get to church each week, so I need to start planning my morning schedule a little better…In the afternoon my new roommate (Niveta) and I met up with some other assistants; Amanda, Kayla (both Americans), and Catherine (Scottish). We met on the Champs Elysee and did some window shopping. We had lunch at Burger King (way cheaper here than in Switzerland) and walked some more. We were stopped by news crew who interviewed Amanda (she volunteered) about her experience as an American during the attacks on Friday night. Then we decided to head to Ikea. Ikea is like my happy place here. It is exactly the same as it is in the U.S. It was Niveta’s first time in an Ikea so we walked through the whole thing, just to show her its awesomeness. I got quite a few new things for my apartment and a little shopping bag/cart thing that all the French have (it makes having to walk to and from the market a lot easier – since you don’t have to carry everything). After shopping in Ikea we stopped at the little food court thing they have (not the restaurant but where they sell hot dogs and such) and got something to drink, cinnamon rolls, and some ice cream. Then we headed back home. It was a long day, but it was good to be out with friends and to show that we were not afraid.

 Nearly empty metro station that is usually packed- Gare de Lyon
Kayla and Amanda-With Kayla's new boyfriend...

Monday 16/11: I went into Paris again today to meet up with Amanda. We have started a weekly trend of meeting in Le Marais for lunch and other activities, mostly walking around. We ate at a bagel place called Bagelstein. I had a bagel with cream cheese and Dr. Pepper! Then we went to the cheesecake place that Rachel found, Berko. This time I got my own piece and it was delicious! After Berko we went to the Orange (a cell phone/internet provider) to get internet for my apartment. I’m glad Amanda was there with me, I’m not sure I would have been able to figure it all out without her help. After Orange I headed back home. It was tired and ready for bed.

BHV all ready for Christmas
Berko Cheesecake

Tuesday 17/11: Back to teaching. In my first class we talked about the attacks. The kids here often amaze me. The two I had today talked about their fear of the night, but also about the strength they received from seeing the support from most of the world. One student said that it humbled him to know that Paris would not stand alone. Seriously a 17 year old whose first language is not English was able to express such deep thinking in his second language makes me proud. I am so grateful to be working with such amazing kids. After my classes I spent some time preparing for the week then headed to Puteaux to tutor my favorite 7 year old. He is such a fun kid; hopefully he is learning English from me! After I was done tutoring I headed to the Eiffel tower to meet some other assistants; Amanda, Cat, Lucy, and Emily. That night the tower was to be lit up in the bleu, blanc, et rouge (blue, white, and red) of the French flag. When we arrived the tower was dark. It was beautiful and sad at the same time. Like the tower was mourning for Paris. Once they lit it up, it was so cool. It is amazing how such a simple thing can mean so much. It seemed to say that France will not give into what the terrorists want. I loved it!

 Eiffel Tower
 Eiffel Tower
 Eiffel Tower
                                                                        Eiffel Tower

Wednesday 18/11: I had a bit of a stressful afternoon. After my classes today I planned to meet Amanda in Le Marais again to go to Thanksgiving. I arrived at the metro stop only to discover that they were kicking everyone out. There was something happening at the next metro stop and they were not letting trains through. So they told everyone to take the bus to La Défense to catch the RER A to wherever they needed to go. So I went up and started trying to figure out if there was a way to get back without going to La Défense. I could take the bus…that a million people were waiting for. So I waited. When the bus came it was so f ull, I was just like nope; I’ll keep waiting. I then noticed that no new people were coming so I headed back to the metro on the off chance that the trains were running again, they were. So I took the train to le Marais to meet Amanda. We went to Starbucks and chatted for awhile then headed to Thanksgiving to see what they had for our Thanksgiving dinner (Saturday 28/11…I know two days after…but we have to work on the actual holiday). They have so many good American things there. I ended up buying some Reese’s Peanut Butter Cups, a Butterfinger, and an A&W root beer! After Thanksgiving we wanted to go see another store, Tati, which has housing goods and such for really cheap. So we walked there…the whole 20+ blocks. Then peaked around, decided we should go to one of the bigger ones and headed home.
Thursday 19/11: I came to my classes then headed home!!! It was a pretty chill day. I went to the store, bought some stuff. Went home and relaxed the rest of the night. It was nice having a break from being busy most of the week!

Friday 20/11: After my classes I went to the Orange store near me – our internet was not working! The guy there was mean and did not even try to help me. So I gave up and decided to call the help line on Monday morning. Then went shopping at Auchan (which was right next to Orange), this store reminded me so much of Walmart. It had everything like Walmart does. I spent a good amount of time in there just wandering around. I even found a swiffer…which I bought. I love swiffers, like they are seriously my favorite things…my floor feels a lot cleaner now.

Saturday 21/11: Today I went on a long adventure; first to Saint-Germain-en-Laye to see where my friend Kayla lives, and then north of the city for dinner. I met up with Cat at the RER station and we then met up with Kayla and Amanda. We then started to head towards Kayla’s. On our way we stopped at a pizza place for some lunch…Kayla and I really like to go get pizza whenever we can. Then we headed to her house. She lives with a family in exchange for nannying/speaking English with their youngest son. It was a very big house with a kitty! Amanda loved the cat so much! He was so calm and just enjoyed our loving on him. It makes me want a cat so much more! After playing with the cat for awhile we decided it was time to start heading out to the dinner party we were attending at another assistant’s, Hana, home north of Paris. We had to stop at Monoprix to get supplies for what we were all bringing. Hana was making spaghetti bolognaise; so I volunteered to make garlic bread! I got supplies for that and the others got what they needed, then we started our really long journey to Hana’s. We to the RER A to Gare de Nord where we switched to RER D to Saint-Denis, where we had to switch to the train line H. While we were getting of the RER there were a ton of people getting off too; as we went down the stairs Amanda got pushed and she fell breaking the wine she was bringing and bruising her tailbone. It was surprising that no one besides us really stopped to help her and make sure she was ok…Amanda was ok and we helped remove the broken wine bottle and punctured coca-light bottle (France’s Diet Coke) from her bag and then went to get on the next train. People can be so rude. The entire trip to Hana’s took us over 2 hours…so fun!! I definitely wish we would have had access to a car that day! Dinner was delicious and everyone loved the garlic bread I made, which is always good. At 9pm Amanda, Kayla, and I headed out since we had the furthest to travel and I definitely did not want to get home after midnight. I left Amanda and Kayla at Gare de Nord and headed to Montgeron on my own. While waiting for the train to leave at Gare de Lyon (I had to switch to a different RER D there) I witnessed something that would probably have ended differently in the US. Four SNCF security guards (all white) got on the train and asked a young black man to follow them off the train. They searched his backpack asked to see his identity, and wrote him a ticket of some kind. Now I was expecting this young man to freak out or start some conflict with these guards…no such thing happened. He just stood there respectfully answering their questions and waiting for them to finish. Once they were done he got back on the train and that was the end of the incident. It really baffled me. I’m not sure if it is because in France there isn’t as big of a race problem between whites and blacks or because this kid was just a good kid. But it really showed me the difference between the respect people have here for police and even security guards. There has been a lot more security checks going on since Nov. 13 and it is nice to see that people are respecting the jobs of those who have to do the checking. I finally arrived home at about 11:30 and went straight to bed.
Church in Montgeron at night. So beautiful and peaceful

Sunday 22/11: I slept through my alarms...again…I will get over that someday…maybe. Since I didn’t wake up for church I decided to stay in and relax, and it was glorious!

Monday 23/11: As you may remember Mondays are another day off for me (yes I have a long weekend every weekend). So I did some cleaning and unpacked a little more (sorry still not done so no pictures yet). Called about the internet still not working and got an appointment for some technicians to come fix the problem. Went grocery shopping and relaxed the rest of the day. It was nice to have a couple of days of relaxing…I’ve been so busy recently. It is funny that ever since I moved out of Paris I do more than when I lived in Paris…life.

Tuesday 24/11: I went to classes and then came home to wait for the technicians to arrive (sometime between 1 and 6pm)…As I was making some lunch they called and said they had arrived! They were quick. We made our way through their repairs with Niveta and my awful French and their broken English and we got our internet fixed! It was the best thing ever. I’m so glad we got it taken care of; it has been rough without internet to do research for classes etc. That night I finally cooked a real meal (because I finally had enough groceries to last more than a day or two). I made some alfredo sauce (from scratch, they don’t have alfredo sauce in jars here), pasta, chicken (with Italian seasoning), salad, and some bread (that I bought, bread is really cheap here). It was so good and I still have leftovers. I love that I can cook and make good food without a lot of effort. Thanks mom and dad for teaching me to cook! Then I spent the rest of the evening watching Netflix and planning for classes. I feel like me life is complete again.

Wednesday 25/11: After classes today I went to meet Amanda at le Marais, apparently our favorite place. I got there before her, so I waited for her at Starbucks, yes again I know where it is and I know what I like from there. Then we went back to the store Thanksgiving to get supplies for our Thanksgiving dinner we are having on Saturday. I got some French’s onions, and some Cranberry sauce, and Pam (cooking spray). The Pam is not for Thanksgiving dinner, just for my happiness when cooking, haha. I am so glad there is a store that has American things, even if it is ridiculously expensive. After we finished there we headed to Lush to get Amanda some shampoo and conditioner. Then we went to BHV (it’s a department store) where we wandered around for awhile, looking at things that we would love to have if we had ovens/money/a way to take it back to the States with us. We spent a lot of time in the kitchen stuff…I love kitchen stuff…we even found gold salt and pepper (because France is so bourgeoisie).  We both got our steps in for the day so we decided to head home. It’s fun having a friend to hang out with here!

Gold Salt and Pepper from BHV

Thursday 26/11: Happy Thanksgiving!! It is kind of hard being away from family and friends this year. This is my first time away from everyone. I usually have some family or friend’s house to go to on Thanksgiving. It is very different working (a normal job) on this holiday knowing that if I were teaching in the U.S. I would have today off. In my classes we talked about Thanksgiving and what they know about it, about the food, about what we are thankful for, and then Black Friday. They are so confused by Black Friday here. People do not like to work and therefore opening a store at such crazy times for good “sales” doesn’t appeal to them, good for you France. It was fun getting their perspective. After school I decided to go to McDonald’s, where I am now, to finish up this blog before I go tutor Max (I had to rearrange his session this week since I had to wait for the technician on Tuesday). I needed something American today. So I am sitting here using their wifi and finishing this really long post up and listening to Maroon 5. Here is what I am really thankful for this year. I am thankful for: my family, especially my parents, who love and support me in all my life decisions. I am grateful they are supportive of me living so far from home and for living a long time dream of mine. I’m thankful for my friends new and old. I’m grateful that I’ve made new friends here that I can laugh with, share fears with, and figure out the confusing bureaucracy of France with. I’m grateful for friends in the U.S. who message me, who pray for me, who are following my life here. I’m grateful for the opportunity to live in France. I’m grateful for being placed in an amazing school, with a great staff. I’m grateful for the students I work with; I hope they are learning from me. I’m grateful for my Heavenly Father who has been here for me through my homesickness and all. I am grateful for His hand in my life. I am grateful for so so much and am so blessed.

Ok guys! I’m finally caught up!! I hope you made it through and that you are continuing to follow me here, on Facebook, and on Instagram. Look for my next post which will include our American Thanksgiving in Paris event that is happening on Saturday (because we definitely could not have made it work tonight)! Love you all.