Thursday, November 26, 2015

Where did the last three weeks go?

Well all. I apologize for the long delay in getting a new post up for you. I have been without internet for over a week. So welcome to another long catch-up post!! It will include my last days of my sister’s visit, the Paris attacks, moving, and life without internet. Enjoy!!

Monday 9/11 was a semi-tourist day for me. That morning I met Rachel and her mother-in-law, Mary, at the metro near their hotel. Then we went and got breakfast from a bakery, Paul; Rachel and Mary both got tartes, I got pain au chocolat. Then we headed to the RER station (one of the Trains) to get to head to the Eiffel Tower. The Eiffel Tower opens at 9:30 we got there at about 8:50, and it was a good thing we did, there was already a small line…by the time 9:30 rolled around the line was wrapped around the other side of the tower! Sometimes it pays to have a sister who likes to plan ahead. At 9:30 they opened the ticket office and we got our tickets to take the elevator to the top (smartest idea). We got up there and it was beautiful! I loved being able to see all of Paris with a bird’s eye view! We walked around the top then headed down to the 2nd floor, there we walked around a little more, took some more pictures, and then we took the stairs to the 1st floor (that was a lot of stairs, so glad we took the elevator up)! On the 1st floor they have some parts where you can stand on “clear” plastic and look down to the ground. That was fun and kind of scary at the same time (raise your hand if you have a fear of falling too) since it is still very high up. When we decided it was time to leave we went to wait for the elevator…that was taking forever. There is only one big elevator and it was filled with people when it finally stopped on the floor. So we decided to go down the stairs instead. We beat the elevator that we couldn’t fit into…the stairs were worth it. After the Eiffel tower we walked to the river, for a boat tour of the major sites of Paris. The tour was fun. It still amazes me all of the history that is in Paris. I loved seeing the sites from the river. After the cruise I left Rachel and Mary at Trocadéro to head to Montgeron to pick up my keys for my new apartment. Once I was finished there I met Rachel in the Carousel, a little mall underneath the Louvre (where they were). We then started to walk around trying to decide what to do for dinner. After passing a ton of different places, we decided to go back to Isle Saint-Louis, where we had dinner the first night, to try a restaurant we had seen. We got their “formule” (a set price meal). I got, French onion soup (except they just call it onion soup here), tartiflette (kind of like au gratin potatoes, but with French cheese), and a fruit salad for dessert. It was so good. I really enjoyed the meal. Then we walked back towards their hotel and I headed home (I had work the next morning).

 Eiffel Tower
 View From the Top
 View From the Top
 View From the Top
 View From the Top
 View From the Top
 View from the first floor
 View from the first floor
 View from the first floor
 River Cruise 
 River Cruise
 River Cruise

 Carousel de Louvre-Ready for Christmas
 Eiffel Tower at sunset
 Eiffel Tower at sunset
My store! 
 McDo all decked out for the holidays
 Notre Dame
 View From the Top of the Eiffel Tower
On the River Boat Cruise

 Tuesday 10/11: I had to go to work while Rachel and Mary headed to Versailles to explore the palace and gardens. I also had to tutor that evening so I did not meet up with them until dinner time. We were all tired and wanted to do something fast. So I met them at the McDonalds (you read that right, McDonalds) near their apartment and get dinner to go. My first experience with McDonalds in France wasn’t too bad. I got a “Royal Cheese” which I think is a quarter pounder with cheese...it tasted just fine. We also finished of the macarons we got their first day here. We chatted awhile and then it was time to say goodbye, they were leaving very early Wednesday morning. It was hard to say goodbye. I loved having my sister here and was so grateful that she could come. I hope more people decide to come visit me! It was fun seeing a family member everyday for a week. I miss
Wednesday 11/11: Armistice Day-Veterans Day (in the U.S.). Today we did not have school. Bank holidays are usually given off in France. So I decided to move a bunch of my stuff to my new apartment. So I got up packed my stuff aka shoved things in my suitcases and waited for a few friends I recruited to help me move (Amanda, Kayla, and Jo). Amanda and Jo arrived first so we gathered all my stuff and waited for Kayla by the metro entrance. We then started the journey to my new apartment. I’m so grateful for their help. I have no idea how I would have made it all the way out there without their help. We dropped my stuff at my new place. It was about 5 when we were finally done, and we were starving. So we decided to eat at this little diner in Montgeron. It had a 50s theme and was definitely a stereotype of what the French think of U.S. diners. We shared some appetizers; mozzarella sticks and onion rings (I was pretty happy about this) and I got a cheeseburger and fries (they were steak fries; different from other places I’ve had fries here). Then we made our way back to Paris, where I left them to head out to their apartments in the Paris suburbs opposite from where we were. It was fun hanging out these guys. They know how to make anything into an adventure!

Thursday 12/11: Just a normal day of teaching English at the school. It is fun getting to know these kids more. I wish that I saw them more than once a week, or once every few weeks. It’s also fun seeing how excited they get seeing me in the hallways. I love it!

Friday 13/11: Another normal day today. I have just two classes on Fridays but I also tutor every other Friday night. So I will hang out in Neuilly until it is time to tutor; which is what I am doing right now! I have one more class in about 20 min. Then afterwards I will probably do a little work for next week, maybe explore the city some more, maybe do a little window shopping…I am moving out tomorrow…So, obviously, I started writing this post well before the events of that night. I want to leave it as is and just add. On 13/11 after I completed my tutoring session I headed home like any other night, stopped at the market to get something for dinner and got home, ate dinner got ready for bed etc. I skyped with my mom for awhile and then skyped with my good friend Malia. While talking with Malia a friend of mine here in Paris, Kayla, messaged me and asked if I heard about the shooting? I hadn’t so I started to look up the news and see what I could find. At first it didn’t seem too serious. As sad as it sounds, a shooting in my mind wasn’t that big of a deal, they happen in the U.S. However, the news kept coming in, a bombing at the stadium, hostages at the Bataclan theater, the numbers kept going up. It really shocked me. I looked up the distance from where I was in the 5th to where the events were taking place…the Bataclan and the café were just 2 ½ miles or so from where I was! I couldn’t believe it; I heard no sirens from my window. I made my post on Facebook that I was safe, and just watched the news for most of the night, received many texts, messages, and Facebook posts making sure I was safe. I was safe, but I was sad, and afraid for Paris, for France. I worried that if I went to bed it would get worse, I was saddened for the victims and for their families, I worried. After a very late night FaceTime chat with Tiffanie, I finally fell asleep. It really baffles me that people resort to such extreme measures for “revenge” or in the name of God. I know that it happened in the past and will happen again in the future, it is just sad. I pray for the world. I pray that we will show these terrorists that they cannot win. That the world will come together against them.

La Defense the night of the Paris Attacks

Saturday 14/11: Today when I woke up. I immediately checked the news. I wanted to know what had happened in the hours of sleep I had. I wanted to know if anything new had happened. It was depressing hearing all of the reports. Once I got up I had to get all of my remaining things packed, since I needed to move, once packed I headed out on the metro/RER to get to my new apartment. It was really nervous at first. I had never seen Paris so quiet on a Saturday morning. I got on the metro and headed to Chatelet (a major metro/RER station). It was there that I saw a lot of soldiers out watching, looking, protecting. It is there that I felt it really was safe to be out in the city. I arrived in Montgeron safely and started unpacking (I’m still not done…sorry no pictures until I am finished), made some dinner and headed to bed. Moving really takes it out of me.

Sunday 15/11: I may have slept in a little too long for church. It will now take me about 40 min to get to church each week, so I need to start planning my morning schedule a little better…In the afternoon my new roommate (Niveta) and I met up with some other assistants; Amanda, Kayla (both Americans), and Catherine (Scottish). We met on the Champs Elysee and did some window shopping. We had lunch at Burger King (way cheaper here than in Switzerland) and walked some more. We were stopped by news crew who interviewed Amanda (she volunteered) about her experience as an American during the attacks on Friday night. Then we decided to head to Ikea. Ikea is like my happy place here. It is exactly the same as it is in the U.S. It was Niveta’s first time in an Ikea so we walked through the whole thing, just to show her its awesomeness. I got quite a few new things for my apartment and a little shopping bag/cart thing that all the French have (it makes having to walk to and from the market a lot easier – since you don’t have to carry everything). After shopping in Ikea we stopped at the little food court thing they have (not the restaurant but where they sell hot dogs and such) and got something to drink, cinnamon rolls, and some ice cream. Then we headed back home. It was a long day, but it was good to be out with friends and to show that we were not afraid.

 Nearly empty metro station that is usually packed- Gare de Lyon
Kayla and Amanda-With Kayla's new boyfriend...

Monday 16/11: I went into Paris again today to meet up with Amanda. We have started a weekly trend of meeting in Le Marais for lunch and other activities, mostly walking around. We ate at a bagel place called Bagelstein. I had a bagel with cream cheese and Dr. Pepper! Then we went to the cheesecake place that Rachel found, Berko. This time I got my own piece and it was delicious! After Berko we went to the Orange (a cell phone/internet provider) to get internet for my apartment. I’m glad Amanda was there with me, I’m not sure I would have been able to figure it all out without her help. After Orange I headed back home. It was tired and ready for bed.

BHV all ready for Christmas
Berko Cheesecake

Tuesday 17/11: Back to teaching. In my first class we talked about the attacks. The kids here often amaze me. The two I had today talked about their fear of the night, but also about the strength they received from seeing the support from most of the world. One student said that it humbled him to know that Paris would not stand alone. Seriously a 17 year old whose first language is not English was able to express such deep thinking in his second language makes me proud. I am so grateful to be working with such amazing kids. After my classes I spent some time preparing for the week then headed to Puteaux to tutor my favorite 7 year old. He is such a fun kid; hopefully he is learning English from me! After I was done tutoring I headed to the Eiffel tower to meet some other assistants; Amanda, Cat, Lucy, and Emily. That night the tower was to be lit up in the bleu, blanc, et rouge (blue, white, and red) of the French flag. When we arrived the tower was dark. It was beautiful and sad at the same time. Like the tower was mourning for Paris. Once they lit it up, it was so cool. It is amazing how such a simple thing can mean so much. It seemed to say that France will not give into what the terrorists want. I loved it!

 Eiffel Tower
 Eiffel Tower
 Eiffel Tower
                                                                        Eiffel Tower

Wednesday 18/11: I had a bit of a stressful afternoon. After my classes today I planned to meet Amanda in Le Marais again to go to Thanksgiving. I arrived at the metro stop only to discover that they were kicking everyone out. There was something happening at the next metro stop and they were not letting trains through. So they told everyone to take the bus to La Défense to catch the RER A to wherever they needed to go. So I went up and started trying to figure out if there was a way to get back without going to La Défense. I could take the bus…that a million people were waiting for. So I waited. When the bus came it was so f ull, I was just like nope; I’ll keep waiting. I then noticed that no new people were coming so I headed back to the metro on the off chance that the trains were running again, they were. So I took the train to le Marais to meet Amanda. We went to Starbucks and chatted for awhile then headed to Thanksgiving to see what they had for our Thanksgiving dinner (Saturday 28/11…I know two days after…but we have to work on the actual holiday). They have so many good American things there. I ended up buying some Reese’s Peanut Butter Cups, a Butterfinger, and an A&W root beer! After Thanksgiving we wanted to go see another store, Tati, which has housing goods and such for really cheap. So we walked there…the whole 20+ blocks. Then peaked around, decided we should go to one of the bigger ones and headed home.
Thursday 19/11: I came to my classes then headed home!!! It was a pretty chill day. I went to the store, bought some stuff. Went home and relaxed the rest of the night. It was nice having a break from being busy most of the week!

Friday 20/11: After my classes I went to the Orange store near me – our internet was not working! The guy there was mean and did not even try to help me. So I gave up and decided to call the help line on Monday morning. Then went shopping at Auchan (which was right next to Orange), this store reminded me so much of Walmart. It had everything like Walmart does. I spent a good amount of time in there just wandering around. I even found a swiffer…which I bought. I love swiffers, like they are seriously my favorite things…my floor feels a lot cleaner now.

Saturday 21/11: Today I went on a long adventure; first to Saint-Germain-en-Laye to see where my friend Kayla lives, and then north of the city for dinner. I met up with Cat at the RER station and we then met up with Kayla and Amanda. We then started to head towards Kayla’s. On our way we stopped at a pizza place for some lunch…Kayla and I really like to go get pizza whenever we can. Then we headed to her house. She lives with a family in exchange for nannying/speaking English with their youngest son. It was a very big house with a kitty! Amanda loved the cat so much! He was so calm and just enjoyed our loving on him. It makes me want a cat so much more! After playing with the cat for awhile we decided it was time to start heading out to the dinner party we were attending at another assistant’s, Hana, home north of Paris. We had to stop at Monoprix to get supplies for what we were all bringing. Hana was making spaghetti bolognaise; so I volunteered to make garlic bread! I got supplies for that and the others got what they needed, then we started our really long journey to Hana’s. We to the RER A to Gare de Nord where we switched to RER D to Saint-Denis, where we had to switch to the train line H. While we were getting of the RER there were a ton of people getting off too; as we went down the stairs Amanda got pushed and she fell breaking the wine she was bringing and bruising her tailbone. It was surprising that no one besides us really stopped to help her and make sure she was ok…Amanda was ok and we helped remove the broken wine bottle and punctured coca-light bottle (France’s Diet Coke) from her bag and then went to get on the next train. People can be so rude. The entire trip to Hana’s took us over 2 hours…so fun!! I definitely wish we would have had access to a car that day! Dinner was delicious and everyone loved the garlic bread I made, which is always good. At 9pm Amanda, Kayla, and I headed out since we had the furthest to travel and I definitely did not want to get home after midnight. I left Amanda and Kayla at Gare de Nord and headed to Montgeron on my own. While waiting for the train to leave at Gare de Lyon (I had to switch to a different RER D there) I witnessed something that would probably have ended differently in the US. Four SNCF security guards (all white) got on the train and asked a young black man to follow them off the train. They searched his backpack asked to see his identity, and wrote him a ticket of some kind. Now I was expecting this young man to freak out or start some conflict with these guards…no such thing happened. He just stood there respectfully answering their questions and waiting for them to finish. Once they were done he got back on the train and that was the end of the incident. It really baffled me. I’m not sure if it is because in France there isn’t as big of a race problem between whites and blacks or because this kid was just a good kid. But it really showed me the difference between the respect people have here for police and even security guards. There has been a lot more security checks going on since Nov. 13 and it is nice to see that people are respecting the jobs of those who have to do the checking. I finally arrived home at about 11:30 and went straight to bed.
Church in Montgeron at night. So beautiful and peaceful

Sunday 22/11: I slept through my alarms...again…I will get over that someday…maybe. Since I didn’t wake up for church I decided to stay in and relax, and it was glorious!

Monday 23/11: As you may remember Mondays are another day off for me (yes I have a long weekend every weekend). So I did some cleaning and unpacked a little more (sorry still not done so no pictures yet). Called about the internet still not working and got an appointment for some technicians to come fix the problem. Went grocery shopping and relaxed the rest of the day. It was nice to have a couple of days of relaxing…I’ve been so busy recently. It is funny that ever since I moved out of Paris I do more than when I lived in Paris…life.

Tuesday 24/11: I went to classes and then came home to wait for the technicians to arrive (sometime between 1 and 6pm)…As I was making some lunch they called and said they had arrived! They were quick. We made our way through their repairs with Niveta and my awful French and their broken English and we got our internet fixed! It was the best thing ever. I’m so glad we got it taken care of; it has been rough without internet to do research for classes etc. That night I finally cooked a real meal (because I finally had enough groceries to last more than a day or two). I made some alfredo sauce (from scratch, they don’t have alfredo sauce in jars here), pasta, chicken (with Italian seasoning), salad, and some bread (that I bought, bread is really cheap here). It was so good and I still have leftovers. I love that I can cook and make good food without a lot of effort. Thanks mom and dad for teaching me to cook! Then I spent the rest of the evening watching Netflix and planning for classes. I feel like me life is complete again.

Wednesday 25/11: After classes today I went to meet Amanda at le Marais, apparently our favorite place. I got there before her, so I waited for her at Starbucks, yes again I know where it is and I know what I like from there. Then we went back to the store Thanksgiving to get supplies for our Thanksgiving dinner we are having on Saturday. I got some French’s onions, and some Cranberry sauce, and Pam (cooking spray). The Pam is not for Thanksgiving dinner, just for my happiness when cooking, haha. I am so glad there is a store that has American things, even if it is ridiculously expensive. After we finished there we headed to Lush to get Amanda some shampoo and conditioner. Then we went to BHV (it’s a department store) where we wandered around for awhile, looking at things that we would love to have if we had ovens/money/a way to take it back to the States with us. We spent a lot of time in the kitchen stuff…I love kitchen stuff…we even found gold salt and pepper (because France is so bourgeoisie).  We both got our steps in for the day so we decided to head home. It’s fun having a friend to hang out with here!

Gold Salt and Pepper from BHV

Thursday 26/11: Happy Thanksgiving!! It is kind of hard being away from family and friends this year. This is my first time away from everyone. I usually have some family or friend’s house to go to on Thanksgiving. It is very different working (a normal job) on this holiday knowing that if I were teaching in the U.S. I would have today off. In my classes we talked about Thanksgiving and what they know about it, about the food, about what we are thankful for, and then Black Friday. They are so confused by Black Friday here. People do not like to work and therefore opening a store at such crazy times for good “sales” doesn’t appeal to them, good for you France. It was fun getting their perspective. After school I decided to go to McDonald’s, where I am now, to finish up this blog before I go tutor Max (I had to rearrange his session this week since I had to wait for the technician on Tuesday). I needed something American today. So I am sitting here using their wifi and finishing this really long post up and listening to Maroon 5. Here is what I am really thankful for this year. I am thankful for: my family, especially my parents, who love and support me in all my life decisions. I am grateful they are supportive of me living so far from home and for living a long time dream of mine. I’m thankful for my friends new and old. I’m grateful that I’ve made new friends here that I can laugh with, share fears with, and figure out the confusing bureaucracy of France with. I’m grateful for friends in the U.S. who message me, who pray for me, who are following my life here. I’m grateful for the opportunity to live in France. I’m grateful for being placed in an amazing school, with a great staff. I’m grateful for the students I work with; I hope they are learning from me. I’m grateful for my Heavenly Father who has been here for me through my homesickness and all. I am grateful for His hand in my life. I am grateful for so so much and am so blessed.

Ok guys! I’m finally caught up!! I hope you made it through and that you are continuing to follow me here, on Facebook, and on Instagram. Look for my next post which will include our American Thanksgiving in Paris event that is happening on Saturday (because we definitely could not have made it work tonight)! Love you all.

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